Ramona’s blog

To know whether the guy likes you or not is easier than you thought it was!

A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.

The not so outgoing types- MR. SHY GUY!
These are tough to crack sometimes…

• Discreet.. that is what he is! He’ll look at you and the minute he catches your eyes.poof! He looks away!
• You may ‘feel’ like he’s watching you - but he’s hard to catch at it He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair…
  (Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
• He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn’t quite know how…
  He may ask a friend of yours about you - he’ll say it’s just for “friend of mine” that wants to know about you.
• He seems to talk to everybody, but gets tongue tied with you around!
• You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.   He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
• He’ll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won’t look up.
• Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you’re around (compared to when he’s around his buds or other girls).
• DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
  (Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home…)

How to tell if he likes you

Body language- the dead giveaway to know who’s interested and who’s not!

Find out just how many of those guys out there are flirting with you !!

• He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation. It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he’ll say, “Well, you like orange fizz…”
• His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say “Hey.” to everyone with you, but the “Hey.” to you is a little different.
• His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.
• Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
• His eyes get ’soft’ when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It’s subtle, but you can tell if you watch…
  (You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that’s what made you start wondering if he likes you…)
• When he’s near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he’s looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)
• He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)
• His friends start asking you questions - if you haven’t met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about ‘him.’
• If his friends are paying attention to you after he’s been staring at you - it can mean that he’s been talking about you.
• He tells you that you smell nice…
  (No hidden meaning here - it’s a good thing.)
• He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you’re around.
• if he’s normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It’s the difference in behavior that’s the clue.

• Don’t Nag!
• Resolve arguments quickly… and REALLY resolve them!
• Forgive and truly forget.
• Don’t bring up past problems when addressing a new one.
• Constantly remind your love of how much you love them.
• Never lose your respect for your partner.
• Even though you are a couple, never lose your self-identity.
• Schedule and never break a weekly date with your partner. Even if the date involves staying home.
• Don’t lie or be unfaithful to your partner.
• Make it a point to say and show that you love your partner every day!

In life, we may find it easy to allow ourselves to love and accept multitudes of other people, but when it comes to loving ourselves we’re not as forgiving. In fact, we can be quite relentless in our pursuit of perfection. So, how then do you learn to put aside all the shoulds and should nots we face, and really begin a love affair with yourself?

The first step is to realize that you are somebody. You’re a friend, someone’s daughter or son, possibly a lover, an employee or employer, or maybe even someone’s spouse. No matter how your role changes, you’re still somebody. Nothing will ever change that.

The next step is to take time out to actually love yourself. In romantic relationships it is often said that true love is shown through actions, not words. Learn to apply this to yourself with the following ideas, and you’ll be on the road to a lifetime romance, with yourself!

Dear Me…
Write a love letter to yourself. In the letter describe what you really like about you, and what you’d like to improve about yourself. Keep it in a special place you can refer to when needed.

Scheduling Time
Make appointments with yourself to do artistic or spiritually uplifting activities. For example, you might enjoy going on a picnic at the park, taking a tour through an art museum, or taking a walk in a secluded area.

The Finer Things In Life
Enjoy the finer things in life! Eat on your “good” dishes. Enjoy a candlelit meal. Listen to a favorite CD over champagne. Wear your favorite clothes. Treat yourself to unexpected present.

Enlighten Yourself
Try learning an enlightening hobby such as yoga or meditation.

Freedom Of Yourself
Give yourself freedom to make mistakes. Instead of questioning why you are doing, or may have done, something, just accept that you did it. Know inside that you’ll handle it when you’re ready to, and that it is okay to do just that.

Forgiveness
Forgive yourself for something in your past. Write a letter of apology that includes everything you might have done. Seal it in an envelope, and keep it somewhere private.

Day-By-Day
Live life day-by-day. Try not to worry about what will, or will not happen in the future. Or, what may, or may not have happened in your past. All things are created in the present. Remember, your future and your past are created by what you are doing right now this very moment.

Couple of people had been asking me about “how to get over someone they love” and I had this conversation with one of my friends, and it was intresting so I decided to share it with you all.
I hope it helps.

• Ask yourself what might be in his head or his heart; it takes two people to be in a relationship and even though you feel the way that you do, maybe it was meant to be this way. Save your love for someone who feels the same way about you!
• It’s not about getting over a person, it’s about feeling good about yourself. It’s about knowing that you are the most important and you need to be happy. If this other person doesn’t feel the same way, it doesn’t really matter.
• If you belive in destiny then you have know that things happen when they are meant to be. People part for reasons beyond human comprehension but the reality remains if you are meant to love each other and be with each other, it will happen. That’s the power of destiny. Love always wins. Love is important and only it counts.
• Try not to be in contact cos its almost like an addiction. You think that one little text will do no harm but the pain when he doesn’t reply will just make things worse.
• Time. Letting yourself grieve and actually being ok with that. Not forcing yourself to get over someone. Allow yourself to feel the hurt, cry, write about it, listen to sad songs. Soon you will feel so tired from hurting all of the time. You will be ready to move forward.Pray, and remember the good times but learn from the bad. Don’t you want, one day, to be truly happy? Life is to short to give up the chance of true love for yourself. Go out into the world and continue to be the wonderful person that you are. Someone will see this, and love you just as much as you are capable of loving.
• You accept yourself as you are, love yourself for who you are, forgive yourself for decisions and actions that have brought you pain, never settle for anything less then what you desire and deserve. Love is all about timing, make yourself the best person you can be both mentally and physically and do it for yourself no man. Once you do that, you will no longer waste your time on men who do not see you for who you are.
• You have to decide that there is now another step to climb in your life. There will always be happiness around the corner, everyone finds it. Happiness WILL come and find you.
• Time is the key. When you love someone you must know when it is time to let go. As hard as this may sound, strength, courage and knowledge is gathered from a broken heart. No one promised that love would last forever, nor that it wouldn’t, it’s just a chance. Life is a chance.
• “You never stop loving someone, you just learn to live without them.”

Special thanks to my dear friend kamran

Today we had an interview with our love Dr. about some of the question you might have about the person you are dating and you want to dump..

1. When you are on a date with someone you don’t like, what would you do?
Love Dr: TXT one of your girl friends and tell her to call u and say there is an emergency and you have to leave right at that moment…

2. When you dated the guy for a while and your not into him, what kind of excuse can you make to get ride of him?
Love Dr: All you need to do is to tell him how busy your are with school and work and you don’t even have time to sleep….

3. You are in a club with your date and you find someone else who is cuter, what would you do?
Love Dr: Its really easy you tell him your going to the ladies room and ditch him for the cuter guy!!

4. You are in one of your friends house and your friends are trying to hook you up with someone you don’t like, what would you do to get ride of him?
Love Dr: You go to the kitchen and pretend you are helping out with the dishes…

5. The guy is keep hitting on you nonstop and no matter how hard you try, he just doesnt get it, what would you do?
Love Dr: Try to get drunk, and throw up all over him…

To be continue….