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Couple of people had been asking me about “how to get over someone they love” and I had this conversation with one of my friends, and it was intresting so I decided to share it with you all.
I hope it helps.

• Ask yourself what might be in his head or his heart; it takes two people to be in a relationship and even though you feel the way that you do, maybe it was meant to be this way. Save your love for someone who feels the same way about you!
• It’s not about getting over a person, it’s about feeling good about yourself. It’s about knowing that you are the most important and you need to be happy. If this other person doesn’t feel the same way, it doesn’t really matter.
• If you belive in destiny then you have know that things happen when they are meant to be. People part for reasons beyond human comprehension but the reality remains if you are meant to love each other and be with each other, it will happen. That’s the power of destiny. Love always wins. Love is important and only it counts.
• Try not to be in contact cos its almost like an addiction. You think that one little text will do no harm but the pain when he doesn’t reply will just make things worse.
• Time. Letting yourself grieve and actually being ok with that. Not forcing yourself to get over someone. Allow yourself to feel the hurt, cry, write about it, listen to sad songs. Soon you will feel so tired from hurting all of the time. You will be ready to move forward.Pray, and remember the good times but learn from the bad. Don’t you want, one day, to be truly happy? Life is to short to give up the chance of true love for yourself. Go out into the world and continue to be the wonderful person that you are. Someone will see this, and love you just as much as you are capable of loving.
• You accept yourself as you are, love yourself for who you are, forgive yourself for decisions and actions that have brought you pain, never settle for anything less then what you desire and deserve. Love is all about timing, make yourself the best person you can be both mentally and physically and do it for yourself no man. Once you do that, you will no longer waste your time on men who do not see you for who you are.
• You have to decide that there is now another step to climb in your life. There will always be happiness around the corner, everyone finds it. Happiness WILL come and find you.
• Time is the key. When you love someone you must know when it is time to let go. As hard as this may sound, strength, courage and knowledge is gathered from a broken heart. No one promised that love would last forever, nor that it wouldn’t, it’s just a chance. Life is a chance.
• “You never stop loving someone, you just learn to live without them.”

Special thanks to my dear friend kamran

by Chris Issak

Broken skies, heartaches that flowers won’t mend
Say goodbye knowing that this is the end
Tender dreams, shadows fall
Love too sweet, to recall
Dry your eyes, face the dawn
Life will go on

All day long thought that we still had a chance
Letting go, this is the end of romance
Broken hearts find your way
Make it through just this day
Face the world on your own
Life will go on, life will go on

There’ll be blue skies, every true love
Someday I’ll hold you again
They’ll be blue skies in a better world, darlin’

Tender dreams, shadows fall
Love too sweet, to recall
Dry your eyes, face the dawn
Life will go on, life will go on
Broken heart find your way
Make it through just this day
Face the world on your own
Life will go on
 

by Glenn Engel

For you I would climb
the highest mountain peak
swim the deepest ocean
your love I do seek.

For you I would cross
the rivers most wide
Walk the hottest desert sand
to have you by my side.

For you are the one
who makes me whole
you’ve captured my heart
and touched my soul.

For you are the one
that stepped out of my dreams
gave me new hope
showed me what love means.

For you alone
are my reason to live
for the compassion you show
and the care that you give.

You came into my life
and made me complete
each time I see you
my heart skips a beat.

For you define beauty
in both body and mind
your soft, gentle face
more beauty I’ll ne’er find.

For you are the one
God sent from above
the angel I needed
for whom I do love.

Today is Bia2’s 4th birthday. “so Happy Birthday Bia2″ . Amir joon you’re simply the best, I also would like to say “khaste nabashi” to Pourya, keanoosh, Sobhan, Hessan, Romiseh and also my chat admins(Mona, Batman,hootan, Zagroz, Navid, Madame de luxe,goojesabz, pashmak,rozegar, rabinhood, HameD and kamran). You guys are the best and thank you for all the hard work . You guys are the best!!

Also I would like to Congratulate Babak and his new section in Bia2. Babak joon Welcome to Bia2 and keep up the good work

Life is short, Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, And never regret anything that made you smile. Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we’re here we should dance

“Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at 20 or 80. Anyone who keeps learning stays young. The greatest thing in life is to keep your mind young.”
- Henry Ford

The scenario: The boy initiated the date. The rule: The check comes. She reaches for her purse. He says he’ll pay. She resists. He insists. Do not deviate from this pattern. There are signals flying all over the place here, but they’re usually totally unique to the individual so you’re not going to be able to figure them out on the first date. Lots of women will let the guy pay if she’s interested and will try harder to contribute money if they’re not.
The scenario: the girl initiated the date. The rule: The check comes. She reaches for her purse. He says he’ll pay. She resists. He insists. Just do it ok, boys? It’s nicer that way. Even if you’re not interested in dating her. It’s gentlemanly and makes you look good. She’s been stressed all night because she asked you out and maybe that was too forward and maybe she should have just waited and on and on. Then you pay for dinner. And it makes everything ok. It makes you an active participant in the date and it means that you didn’t hate being there all night. At the very least, split the check.

Follow the three Rs: Respect for self, Respect for others, and Responsibility for all your actions.

Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.

Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

When you realize you’ve made a mistake , take immediate steps to correct it.

Spend some time alone every day.

Open your arms to change but dont change your values.

Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.

Live a good, honourable life. Then when you get older and think back , you’ll be able to enjoy it a second time.

A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.

In disagreements with love ones, deal only with the current situation.Don’t bring up the past.

Share your knowledge. It’s a way to ahieve immortality.

Be gentle with earth.

Once a year, go some place you’ve never been before.

Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.

Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

“If you see yourself as prosperous, you will be. If you see yourself as continually destitute, that is exactly what you will be.”
- Robert Collier