Ramona’s blog

In life, we may find it easy to allow ourselves to love and accept multitudes of other people, but when it comes to loving ourselves we’re not as forgiving. In fact, we can be quite relentless in our pursuit of perfection. So, how then do you learn to put aside all the shoulds and should nots we face, and really begin a love affair with yourself?

The first step is to realize that you are somebody. You’re a friend, someone’s daughter or son, possibly a lover, an employee or employer, or maybe even someone’s spouse. No matter how your role changes, you’re still somebody. Nothing will ever change that.

The next step is to take time out to actually love yourself. In romantic relationships it is often said that true love is shown through actions, not words. Learn to apply this to yourself with the following ideas, and you’ll be on the road to a lifetime romance, with yourself!

Dear Me…
Write a love letter to yourself. In the letter describe what you really like about you, and what you’d like to improve about yourself. Keep it in a special place you can refer to when needed.

Scheduling Time
Make appointments with yourself to do artistic or spiritually uplifting activities. For example, you might enjoy going on a picnic at the park, taking a tour through an art museum, or taking a walk in a secluded area.

The Finer Things In Life
Enjoy the finer things in life! Eat on your “good” dishes. Enjoy a candlelit meal. Listen to a favorite CD over champagne. Wear your favorite clothes. Treat yourself to unexpected present.

Enlighten Yourself
Try learning an enlightening hobby such as yoga or meditation.

Freedom Of Yourself
Give yourself freedom to make mistakes. Instead of questioning why you are doing, or may have done, something, just accept that you did it. Know inside that you’ll handle it when you’re ready to, and that it is okay to do just that.

Forgiveness
Forgive yourself for something in your past. Write a letter of apology that includes everything you might have done. Seal it in an envelope, and keep it somewhere private.

Day-By-Day
Live life day-by-day. Try not to worry about what will, or will not happen in the future. Or, what may, or may not have happened in your past. All things are created in the present. Remember, your future and your past are created by what you are doing right now this very moment.

” If you dont like something change it; if you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.”
- Mary Engelbreit

There are only two things in life to worry about:

Whether you are well
or whether you are sick

If you are well,

then there is nothing to worry about.

But if you are sick,

There are only two things to worry about:

Whether you are going to get well

or whether you are going to die.

If you get well,

Then there is nothing to worry about.

But if die,

There are only two things to worry about:

Whether you are going to heaven
or whether you are going to hell.

If you go to heaven,

Then you have nothing to worry about.

But if you go to hell,

You’ll be so busy shaking hands with all your friends,

That you won’t have time to worry!

So, why Worry?

I know God will not give me anything i can’t handle, I just wish he didn’t trust me so much.
-Mother Tresa

Mano Entezar, Kaboos Tanhay
Mano heese inke har lahze injayee
Daram ayneha ro gom mikonam kam kam
toro har taraf ro mikonam mibinam
Nago az to cheshmam chizi nemikhoni
toke lahze lahze halam ro midoni
age in baharam bar nagardi khone
dege chizi az man yadet nemimone
mano rahaa kon az in fekr tanhay
to narafti, na to hanozam injay
daram az khodam ba fekr to raad misham
daram asheghy ro ba to balad misham

Siavash joon it’s been 7days R.I.P azizam

Just keep picking the pics that appeal to you, and in the end it will give you a profile of yourself.

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2bare del havay ba to bodan karde
nago in del dori eshgheto bavar karde
dele man khaste az in dast be doa ha bordan
hame arezooham ba raftane to mordan
hala man ye arezo daram to sineh
ke 2bare cheshm man toro bebine
hala man ye arezoo daram  to sineh
Ke 2bare cheshm man toro bebine
vaseh peyda kardanet tan be dele sahra midam
akhe to range cheshat ghaymat donya ro didam
toy 7ta asemon to tak setaray mani
bekhoda naze 2cheshmato be donya nemidam
hala man ye arezoo daram to sineh
ke 2bare cheshme man toro bebine

Siavash joonam R.I.P

” You can never tell what type of impact you may make on another’s life by your actions or lack of action. Sometimes just with a smile on the street to a passing stranger can make a difference we could never imagine.”
- Ed Foreman